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Aim high

23 Thursday Jun 2016

Posted by Andi in Attitude, Being brave, Positivity

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Aim high, big goals, presidency, success

I am not a fan of politics and would rather not say much political here…
But why do we often think that our country’s leaders are idiots and we question how somebody like them got into such a high position.
Look at the positive side – why not?
Why should somebody not believe that they could be so great that they could rule a country?  What makes somebody believe that they can be anything so big and so wonderful?
Maybe we are not meant to be presidents (I’m certainly not cut out for the job – too stressful and too much responsibility) but we can aim as high as we wish.  The difference between you and somebody really successful or powerful is that they believed that they could do it.
Believe that you can do it too.
Believe that you can be the most incredible, successful and content person that you can be in your life.  Know that you can be an inspiration to your family, your friends and your community.
You may not change the world but you can change your world.
And today is as good a day as any to start!

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Learning from the small

16 Thursday Jun 2016

Posted by Andi in Advice, Life Lessons, Positivity, self esteem

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freedom, Friedrich Nietzsche, happiness, Orlando shootings, Soweto uprising, youth day

Today we celebrate Youth Day.
And while we actually do celebrate the freedom that it represents (and enjoy a day off work and school) may we never forget the stories behind June the 16th – the Soweto uprising.
It took bravery for people to stand up for what they believed in.  It took guts for the ‘small’ to fight the ‘big’.
Those people changed our history.
This week, we were once again faced with the result of hatred in the shootings in Orlando, USA.  As devastating as it was, the uprising of people afterwards – standing together as one with strong belief in good – was absolutely amazing.

Most of us are blessed with a freedom that perhaps the precious generation didn’t have.
Let us not take that for granted.
Never let anybody oppress you.  Whether it is leaders, people in your work place, bullies or even family members.  Don’t ever allow anybody to belittle you or tell you that you are less worthy or not good enough.
Don’t be small!
You may not have the ability, or the bravery to take on the ‘big guys’ but you can still be the best person that you can be despite your circumstances.  Rise above those circumstances!
Be wonderful even if nobody supports you in doing it.
Do great things even if nobody recognises what you do.
Do things because they make you happy and not for reward.
Find fulfillment in whatever you need to do and celebrate your freedom to be different.

Friedrich Nietzsche said “the surest way to corrupt a youth is to instruct him to hold in higher esteem those who think alike than those who think differently.”

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Who is to blame for our falls?

08 Wednesday Jun 2016

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Blaming, destiny, empowerment, managing, self esteem, taking charge

On Monday, we had no electricity in our area for a few hours (a few too many).  The sun had set, it was getting dark and in my wisdom I decided that was the ideal time to hang washing (don’t ask – there is no logic to be found here).
Because I couldn’t really see what I was doing, I didn’t realise that I had been dropping water all over my tiled floor until I slipped in the water and had a very non-graceful fall.  I still have a big bruise on my leg to prove it, although my ego was more bruised than my knee.
I sat on the floor in the puddle, crying in pain and frustration and I needed to blame someone – so of course I blamed City Power for my fall.  After all, if I had been able to turn on the lights, I would have noticed the puddle and I wouldn’t have fallen.
That makes sense! Does it?
Not at all!
No matter how dark it was – I was the one carrying wet washing over a tiled floor.  Then that makes it 100% my responsibility.

Every day I spend time with people who give me long lists filled with who is to blame for their problems.  They spend so much energy being angry and blaming that they absolutely do not see the role that they play in their circumstances.
Today I had somebody tell me “if you don’t sort out my manager then I am going to get sick!”
Huh?
The truth is that if they don’t do something to change their situation, then they are going to get sick.  No matter how terrible the manager is, there is nothing that you can do to change this person.  You can only change yourself and how you deal with your issues.

As soon as you realise this and take the control back, you will feel much more empowered.
You are the manager of your own life.  You can have control of your destiny.
Yes, it is difficult when somebody is blocking your way but you have to be the one to take the different path.

Keep being wonderful!

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